I did the straightest thing a guy can do-I put my dick in a vag-and it didn’t make me straight. You did the gayest thing a guy can do-you let someone put a dick in your ass-but that didn’t make you gay. Because you’re not gay, WSOWS, and one ride on a trans escort’s dick can’t change that.
If nothing I’ve said has made you feel better, WSOWS, maybe this will: gay men don’t hire trans women sex workers. Wanting to be with a woman who has a dick is an almost exclusively straight-male kink/obsession/wild side. Gay men are into dick, of course, but what we’re really into is dudes. There are gay men out there who date and fuck and shack up with trans men-men with pussies-so not all gay men are after dick. If our gayness can’t be defined solely by dick, WSOWS, then surely your straightness can’t be undone entirely by dick. I recently spent a lovely day snorkelling with my wife in Mexico. We were grouped with three men who were obviously in a committed three-person relationship. I lacked the cojones to ask directly, but they had an extensive travel history together and lived together, everything was “we” this or that, and there were various PDA pairings during the day.